"I had this image, this vision if you like of relationships where I’m laying in bed in the dark. It descended upon me in a dream. I am lying next to her, whoever she is, and she’s near the edge of the bed, half asleep. You can choose if you like to re-roll the dice, so to speak, if it has not really been working. You can push them out of your bed and then another appears in her place. But who? So it is indeed a gamble and you have to weigh it against this idea, this burden that everytime you push one out, a little piece of you dies."